What Happens to Children When Parents Split?

There is a growing trend in divorce cases to award equal parenting time to both parents. Several states, including Arizona, have joined this trend and modified their relevant statutes.  Parents in Phoenix, Arizona have seen this trend through the amendments enacted in the beginning of 2013. Specifically, the language in the statutes changed from “custody” to “legal decision-making,” signifying a change in the collective attitude toward parental rights and responsibilities.

Dad with kids

From a historical standpoint, the trend in parenting time arrangements has dramatically changed over the years. In the beginning, women were free to leave men, but the children stayed with their father – as the children were considered more akin to property. The trend slowly moved toward a court system that favored mothers as the prevailing belief emerged that mothers provided a more nurturing environment, especially for younger children (also called the tender years doctrine).

All that may be history now. Though there are exceptions (which may include domestic violence, substance abuse, mental health issues, and other safety concerns), courts have recognized the need for both parents to have a loving and healthy relationship with their children.

This also means that Arizona now sets out to “maximize” each parent’s parenting time with the child(ren). To further illustrate the importance of this trend and policy, Arizona legislature has addressed the issue in its statutes. Specifically, the best interest statute, ARS § 25-403(A)(6), states that the court must consider “which parent is more likely to allow the child frequent, meaningful, and continuing contact with the other parent.”

Mother with childIf the court finds that a parent is constantly trying to play “keep away” with the children or frequently puts the other parent down in front of the children, it will likely have a negative impact to that parent’s time with the children. Courts are reluctant to tear children away from either parent and courts want each parent to foster a healthy relationship with their children.

An important point to consider during a divorce or custody proceeding is that it’s more likely than ever that you will be sharing parenting time. Maintaining a functioning, good-faith relationship with the other parent is critical to ensure that you do not lose time with your children.

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